well, well, well, seems that the whole story of free will and blah blah seems to have hit quite many chords in our brain feel like taking another sphere of the whole topic........
FEAR OF CHANGE OR LOSS,WHICH ONE IS A BETTER DEVIL
some say that change though at times can be very apprehensive,at times give people a choice to either continue the same old moribound life or to take a "risk"and go in for a change,from hair cuts to job change to even home change the word change has a daring connotation,on the other hand fear of loss is something which is on an extreme chance,for example we may be open to a shift from manish malhotra to a versace, but....we maynot be ready to lose even a manish malhotra...........though it is a very easy choice and most people would go in for a change and not a loss
i shall go for the fear of loss, as no fear is fear if it is not an extreme loss........and in any case some one has said that if we dont dare to lose we would never be happy to gain or attain something..............now if u want to know who said it....it is no rocket science....
The biggest fear is fear itself- Franklin D Roosevelt coined this many years ago. And i do not understand when you talk about a subject 'Free will'is there a need to use blah and blah. Do you know what this word 'blah' means? It diminishes the veracity and importance of every word you speak.
ReplyDeleteExpressing what i feel about change. We are living in a world full of changes and I heard sometime back, that people who resist changes are called 'Laggards'. Leaving out old things read it habit is a tough thing to do, i agree. I would not be comfortable using any other pillow I am used to sleep with every night, at the first place, why do i need to change my pillow,w hen i can do with it. The pillow is an example which we use on our day to day life.
Changes and drastic changes spews fear and apprehension in human minds. But, the question is change for good? Yes, that question needs to be re-questioned? Ask yourself? If you don't have an answer, ask some one else, if she/he can not convince, ask someone else.
Ok, coming to what you say, Manish Malhotra and Versace. The Versace family is a world known brand of clothing and manish Malhotra is striving hard to be there. The common thread, both of them are on the same page. Selling clothes. Well, to me, talking what you saying a few days back (Freewill and pre-destination) to some MM or Versace didn't go too well. The former represent a society which believes in consumption and unnecessary consumption of material which we MIGHT not need at all. They are creators and attention hungry souls. Organisation giving birth to plastic manifestation of materialistic pleasure.
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thank you for your lofty idealism,to state certain cor rectified versions,the blah blah is to indicate the not so much necessary debate the whole free will issue attained in it, one is to appreciate ,the other is to bragger around , so on pure and sane thoughts i thought we could deviate from the issue , second change....admitted that changes are open windows to thoughts ,but there are people(it could be you too)who later brag about the tiny mosquito which came in through that window....and if people who resist change are called "laggards"then we all are one....as only an individual knows that what change he has resisted today....it could be having the same old "thopa" in a traditional resturant every weekend too thats not change....mind it!!
ReplyDeletei do not need to ask vague questions like are changes for good bad??
the question is how do we differentiate between good change and a bad change and that does not need re conformation from various people.
to me a MM or a Versace are certainly not attention hungry soul....as it is not necessary that it does not appeal to our class and taste it wont appeal to the other half,thats biast thinking....and lastly i think you didnt really read well, i said it is my opinion,and to me facts are sacred and opinions are free,thanks for researching so much, good day..
Who has said one love changes? No one loves unnecessary changes? We resist change and resist with all our force. And certainly i will not change my taste, especially when it comes to food. Because it has little to do with personal development.
ReplyDeletethanks a ton for those lofty idealism ,to be correct, the blah blah was to stop the unnecessary blaggering which was going on and on about the whole free will thingie....and there are two things one is to appreciate the other is to brag on and on....who would want to do that....second if we are talking about change.....and people who resist are laggard,then we all are one....as not changing can also mean having the same old "thopa"every weekend......without fail....mind it.......and third why should one be asking vague questions like are good changes bad?
ReplyDeletethe question is how do v differentiate between a good change and a bad change....fourth,
to us A MM OR A VERSACE mite be attention hungry souls but we cant be biast judge to the other half of the society the are living beings aint they? and lastly i think you didnt read the article well....
i have the opinion not any one else , as there is an old saying....facts are sacred but opinions are free....
thanks 4 so much of researching.good day
thanks for all that./..but lets not personalise people....someone doesnt like it....thanks ....and ignore the last comment it got published twice....
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