hi,
with a lot of courage and rethought i have decided to come back, i am not starting to write a topic, i just want to make a statement that is-

some times, we don't really understand the understand the value of our own words,so we should judiciously use them, as words are like epidemic wars which once let go, goes on to end never,it is not important to be vocal all the time,sometimes, silence speaks a lot, more than any heavy word we use....

i think thats all i wanted to say,good luck and happy weekend to all those who are reading this piece of mine....

well, well, well, seems that the whole story of free will and blah blah seems to have hit quite many chords in our brain feel like taking another sphere of the whole topic........


FEAR OF CHANGE OR LOSS,WHICH ONE IS A BETTER DEVIL
some say that change though at times can be very apprehensive,at times give people a choice to either continue the same old moribound life or to take a "risk"and go in for a change,from hair cuts to job change to even home change the word change has a daring connotation,on the other hand fear of loss is something which is on an extreme chance,for example we may be open to a shift from manish malhotra to a versace, but....we maynot be ready to lose even a manish malhotra...........though it is a very easy choice and most people would go in for a change and not a loss

i shall go for the fear of loss, as no fear is fear if it is not an extreme loss........and in any case some one has said that if we dont dare to lose we would never be happy to gain or attain something..............now if u want to know who said it....it is no rocket science....

with a lot of coaxing and sayings ....i have been yet again "encouraged"by some of my good wishers to back and write a piece,

free will is not a fight for rights it is the road of life(said by my inspiration),for one the road may start after good happenings arrive, for one it may be there just there lying but yet to discover,for me ....THE FREE WILL is the capability of first knowing what we want is right or wrong, and then going forward to have the conviction in yourself that yes, the want should take a flight and become a necessity.............

in the world more than a billion people , how many of us actually cross the threshold of "the so called realization of happiness"we all know we are happy but do we really know what makes us one....once we know that we arrive to a situation of free and regulated will...............thereby i leave my article open ended ,what is happiness, or free will (if we say.) if not realized?

life starts and ends,,,,without actually making us realize what we did or said was not really what we ever wanted to do....as Einstein correctly said that we humans know just the 0.88% of we we really want.... before some time i never realized what he said ,but the aphorism of the whole issue is that i know is a staunch believer in the particular sayings he has "told"....the whole idea of free will vs predestination is an idea of a riot which goes on in us , asking ,coaxing us as to what is right-the destination which we have destined it or the our free will which is certainly not constant....



lets not think from the point of view of an existentialist,of most people who believe in the so called "surrealist prodigy",lets tell them that real life effects do not match the caliber of even contesting predestination....so in my view free will of thy is certainly much above any destination....