DO WE REALLY NEED SOCIAL SITES, AND NETWORKING TO SURVIVE THE UMBILICAL CORD OF RELATIONSHIPS

The chuck seed arrived when one of my friend and me , were talking about how face booking, twittering and orkuting has bombarded us with many ways of avoiding friends ....yeah!~ AVOIDING FRIENDS....we don't really see them....when was the last time that u met your friend?
oh , yeah we know how busy u have been keeping....but do these networking sites compensate our times we have shared with them?or do they really make us good friends?

you know i have really started believing in something that is
"if there is a will there is a way toooo"
and that means chuck networking go and relive the day's

DEJAVU

HOW DU WE KNOW IT IS THE END
yes, you got it write....it is not that im concerned about the municipal roads but the road and the cycle of our work, our lives our daily "chores" how do we know that this is it.........we cant go any further,how do we end this moribund work, life pattern which is stretching and dragging itself with us till the time where we say "we are fed up" "nothing to learn"

as per the holy Einstein a human attention span can never go beyond a fair 15 minutes...but we the superior beings have taken it to five hours,eight or sometimes even twelve(i have witnessed it)so why wont that break even point come!!the question is -"is it our generation's frivolous mind or is it the mind that gets over things which once thrilled us??

even in the case of relationships.......why do we give up on each other,is it lack of love , lack of understanding or just that we were too long too be together....so change....then how do people be there for years together,how do people long to be in a place for years and years without counting......



THE REALITY IS THAT WE DONT GIVE UP ON THINGS ,WE GIVE UP ON OURSELVES, WHAT ABOUT THOSE PEOPLE WHO WORK FOR 15 GOOD YEARS AND MAKE THE SMALL ORGANISATIONS GROW AND CALL THEM COMPANIES, WHAT ABOUT THOSE PEOPLE WHO MARRY FOR YEARS TOGETHER FOR A GOOD 70 YEAR COURTSHIP AND CELEBRATE THEIR JUBILEES,
THEY ARE WINNERS BECAUSE THEY MAKE IT, THEY FEEL IT.....PEOPLE WHO ARE QUITTERS WILL REMAIN ONE....
BUT YES, IN TODAY'S WORLS WE CAN BRING IN SMALL CHANGES....TO SUSTAIN LIKE DOING SOMETHING WHICH WE LOVE ALONG WITH OUR "OLD" JOBS, IT WILL PEP UP THE WHOLE ISSUE, TAKING OUR BELOVEDS OUT ON A TRIP, GOING THROUGH FALLING IN LOVE AGAIN WITH THE SAME PERSON......AND SAYING LOVING YOU INSTEAD OF LOVE YOU ............

THATS WHAT WE CAN DO ABOUT US..........



RITELY IT IS SAID -"OLD IS GOLD"

im forced to to relate my topic to something very unrelenting, that are the sudden rise of the "new genre" of movies, so after a short span of hybernation here im .......



THE LY-SIS DRAMA OF ALL 'TIMES'
The sudden panorama seems to have changed, people seem to understand the hi technological change in the so called intrinsically "bold" movies and wont mind indulging themselves into short gestural debates, what is it all about people?h
ow come times have become questionable ??,it is like saying that oh how could a director "re question" the already existing ones??

i remember when i was a kid, i had seen movies like gangajal,kurukshetra, damini ,ghatak(i loveeeeeeeeee sunny deol) where such earthly topics were taken and very asthetically answered as well, but i dont understand that what is the need to first a)complexify the issue so much that the viewer forgets the point
b)be so outwardly bold in the movie making that by the end you tend to question all morality and characters in the cinema...

my question is that is it what modern cinema is all about
if movie making is an art, and that unfortunately we "indians" take movies more seriously that our life's.........LOL...then should we encourage movies such as devdi, gulaal ,no smoking atc.......
what good is it doing to us, live the nation, i would definetely not understand the relevance of a cast hood just for the acqusition of power........thats blantly no truth.

the actual problem lies is that unfortunately we as silent receipients want to hog on to food which we think is different , and because there is demand for such TRASH the soul keeps gratifying us for obvious reason.



to end this monologue , i feel very pity for the souls who think that these are the films which are different because they not only make us look like we are misguided guini-asses, but tells us a tale of a donkey who thought that he was the only one who could see the fly infront of his eyes until some one came and spated the fly infront of him....poor chap
wake up before its too late, go watch a david dhawan movie instead,pop corn khao mast ho jaoo



free will wins jaii ho!

PUSHING THE LIMITS....

THE WHOLE IDEA OF ONE"S OWN EXISTENCE IS TO PUSH OFF ONE"S LIMIT,A LIMIT WHICH THOUGH IS INVISIBLE CERTAINLY NEEDS A REINFORCEMENT."a pushing of limits could be doing the same things ,on and on and forgetting the whole concept of mundanety.HOWEVER, TO MOST PEOPLE IT IS GOING TO ALL TOGETHER ANOTHER LEVEL, A LEVEL NEAR TO PERFECTION, A LEVEL NEAR TO OUR OWN CONCEPT OF SAINITY....

SO,AS MOST OF MY ARTICLES,HAVE BEEN OPEN ENDED,I ALSO LEAVE THIS ARTICLE OPEN - ENDED,IN PERSUIT OF SUGGESTIONS WHO MAY OR MAY NOT CONTEST ME....

AND IN ANY CASE AS THE GREEK TRELIMENT HAS SAID ....EVERYTHING VALUABLE IS UNDETERMINED....

hi,
with a lot of courage and rethought i have decided to come back, i am not starting to write a topic, i just want to make a statement that is-

some times, we don't really understand the understand the value of our own words,so we should judiciously use them, as words are like epidemic wars which once let go, goes on to end never,it is not important to be vocal all the time,sometimes, silence speaks a lot, more than any heavy word we use....

i think thats all i wanted to say,good luck and happy weekend to all those who are reading this piece of mine....

well, well, well, seems that the whole story of free will and blah blah seems to have hit quite many chords in our brain feel like taking another sphere of the whole topic........


FEAR OF CHANGE OR LOSS,WHICH ONE IS A BETTER DEVIL
some say that change though at times can be very apprehensive,at times give people a choice to either continue the same old moribound life or to take a "risk"and go in for a change,from hair cuts to job change to even home change the word change has a daring connotation,on the other hand fear of loss is something which is on an extreme chance,for example we may be open to a shift from manish malhotra to a versace, but....we maynot be ready to lose even a manish malhotra...........though it is a very easy choice and most people would go in for a change and not a loss

i shall go for the fear of loss, as no fear is fear if it is not an extreme loss........and in any case some one has said that if we dont dare to lose we would never be happy to gain or attain something..............now if u want to know who said it....it is no rocket science....

with a lot of coaxing and sayings ....i have been yet again "encouraged"by some of my good wishers to back and write a piece,

free will is not a fight for rights it is the road of life(said by my inspiration),for one the road may start after good happenings arrive, for one it may be there just there lying but yet to discover,for me ....THE FREE WILL is the capability of first knowing what we want is right or wrong, and then going forward to have the conviction in yourself that yes, the want should take a flight and become a necessity.............

in the world more than a billion people , how many of us actually cross the threshold of "the so called realization of happiness"we all know we are happy but do we really know what makes us one....once we know that we arrive to a situation of free and regulated will...............thereby i leave my article open ended ,what is happiness, or free will (if we say.) if not realized?